Sybrina Fulton’s Letter to Michael Brown Jr’s Family

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Trayvon's mother



Sybrina’s letter to the Michael Brown family:

To The Brown Family,

I wish I had a word of automatic comfort but I don’t. I wish I could say that it will be alright on a certain or specific day but I can’t. I wish that all of the pain that I have endured could possibly ease some of yours but it won’t. What I can do for you is what has been done for me: pray for you then share my continuing journey as you begin yours.

I hate that you and your family must join this exclusive yet growing group of parents and relatives who have lost loved ones to senseless gun violence. Of particular concern is that so many of these gun violence cases involve children far too young. But Michael is much more than a police/gun violence case; Michael is your son. A son that barely had a chance to live. Our children are our future so whenever any of our children – black, white, brown, yellow, or red – are taken from us unnecessarily, it causes a never-ending pain that is unlike anything I could have imagined experiencing.

Further complicating the pain and loss in this tragedy is the fact that the killer of your son is alive, known, and currently free. In fact, he is on paid administrative leave. Your own feelings will bounce between sorrow and anger. Even when you don’t want to think about it because it is so much to bear, you will be forced to by merely turning on your television or answering your cell phone. You may find yourselves pulled in many different directions by strangers who may be well-wishers or detractors. Your circle will necessarily close tighter because the trust you once, if ever, you had in “the system” and their agents are forever changed. Your lives are forever changed.

However with those changes come new challenges and opportunities. You will experience a swell of support from all corners of the world. Many will express their sympathies and encourage you to keep fighting for Michael. You will also, unfortunately, hear character assassinations about Michael which I am certain you already have. This will incense and insult you. All of this will happen before and continue long after you have had the chance to lay your son to rest.

I know this because I lived and continue to live this. I have devoted my life to the comprehensive missions of The Trayvon Martin Foundation – including providing support to families that have lost a young child to senseless gun violence regardless of race, ethnicity or gender. I will support you and your efforts to seek justice for your Michael and the countless other Michaels & Trayvons of our country. The 20 Sandy Hook children. Jordan Davis. Oscar Grant. Kendrick Johnson. Sean Bell. Hadya Pendleton. The Aurora shooting victims. The list is too numerous to adequately mention them all. According to The Children’s Defense Fund, gun violence is the second leading cause of death for children ages 1-19. That is a horrible fact.

Facts, myths, and flat out lies are already out there in Michael’s case. Theories, regardless of how ridiculous, are being pondered by the pundits. My advice is to surround yourselves with proven and trusted support. Through it all, I never let go of my faith, my family, or my friends. Long after the overwhelming media attention is gone, you will need those three entities to find your ‘new normal.’ Honor your son and his life, not the circumstances of his alleged transgressions. I have always said that Trayvon was not perfect. But no one will ever convince me that my son deserved to be stalked and murdered. No one can convince you that Michael deserved to be executed.

But know this: neither of their lives shall be in vain. The galvanizations of our communities must be continued beyond the tragedies. While we fight injustice, we will also hold ourselves to an appropriate level of intelligent advocacy. If they refuse to hear us, we will make them feel us. Some will mistake that last statement as being negatively provocative. But feeling us means feeling our pain; imagining our plight as parents of slain children. We will no longer be ignored. We will bond, continue our fights for justice, and make them remember our children in an appropriate light. I would hate to think that our lawmakers and leaders would need to lose a child before protecting the rest of them and making the necessary changes NOW…

With Heartfelt Support,

Sybrina D. Fulton

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12 Responses to Sybrina Fulton’s Letter to Michael Brown Jr’s Family

  1. Ametia says:

    Journalist Ed Gordon had Sybrina Fulton on his “Just Ed” segment during the Steve Harvey Morning Show Wednesday 8/20/14.

    Sybrina Fulton is the mother of slain teenager Trayvon Martin and she plans on assisting the family of Michael Brown during this difficult time. Learn how to support the movement at

    Listen to the exclusive interview here:

  2. rikyrah says:

    What a beautiful woman. A wonderful woman.

  3. Such pain and sorrow. My heart goes out to both families and I commend Ms. Fulton for her letter.

  4. The powerful images of the victim’s families are heartbreaking. I’ve gotten to where I just don’t watch the news any longer. God bless them.

  5. yahtzeebutterfly says:

    I have great admiration for Sybrina Fulton…..her courage, her grace, her dignity, and her compassion for others.

    In the midst of her tears and and grief, Sybrina Fulton pushed for justice for Trayvon, founded the Trayvon Martin Foundation, has supported other mourning mothers, has advocated for gun control laws, has pushed for change in SYG, has created a scholarship fund, and NOW has reached out to yet another grief-stricken mother.

    My heart has been moved deeply from reading Sybrina’s letter to Michael Brown’s family….to Lesley McSpadden who is overwhelmed with unbearable grief.

    There are too many Black mothers in America grieving the loss of their innocent children to the violence resulting from being negatively stereotyped and profiled because of the color of their skin.

  6. Liza says:

    Sybrina Fulton is a force to be reckoned with. I have admired her grace, intelligence, and dignity since the first time I heard her speak. I wish there were some way to alleviate her sorrow, but this is what happens to the mothers of murdered sons. They carry this sorrow to their graves, it is forever in their hearts, and we see it in their eyes. They bear a terrible burden.

  7. A strong and heartfelt letter.

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